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and the winner is…

…lisa, who posted the following:

In the last hour I've learned a
friend's dad is very ill and does not expect to live long. In fact, he
hopes to live until his next grandchild is born (around Dec 23). This
will be grandchild #7. He is anticipating the baby's arrival!

These seven grandchildren belong to his three kids. This gentleman
lost his wife to a sudden illness 15-20 years ago. The grandchildren
have been the light of his life, they range in age from 18 months to 10
years.

His three kids lost their mother too young (high school and college
age) and now their kids will grow up without the continued love and
support of their doting grandfather.

This grandchild will be the last in this family. I would love to
give this family the opportunity to have a picture of the grandchildren
with their grandfather before it's too late.

A family portrait from mm would be a treasure to them all.

lisa, please get in touch with us as soon as you can and we'll set this session up!  to you all, thank you so much for your nominations – it was hard to choose!  it made me think on all the benefits a great photograph can have – any age, a variety of reasons…thank you so much for being here and being the best blog readers ever!  hope you are staying warm and having a wonderful holiday season. we've been busy bees with your christmas orders, so fun!  next thursday, i'm on winter holiday (laura will be answering emails thursday and friday)…we'll be quiet on the blog but wishing you a great close to the year!  warmly, -melanie-


to get the full value of joy, you must have someone to divide it with. [ mark twain ]

jaxson

Jaxon

in a moment, they'll have a small crowd of adults giggling with their flirty looks, those cheeks that just draw kisses to them…ahh, babies :) enter jaxson – who is SO adored and loved!  donna & jerry – you guys are great!  there's so much more from this session (you should have seen his cute jeans, button down shirt and loose tie!) but i'll err on the side of brevity since i just have a few moments and all of your holiday orders are beckoning!  hope you're having the best week…and come the new year, pull out the calendar and start brainstorming when you'd like to do family portraits…you can call as early as you like and we'll brainstorm ideas…mostly, think of something your family enjoys doing together – and let's do that (so photos are just built into a fun day)!  -m-

enchanting is that baby-laugh, all dimples and glitter. [ margaret f. ossoli ]

quote of the day

Quote9

what every aspiring photographer should know

I came across the following whilst reading blogs and thought it might be helpful to anyone contemplating photography as a profession…it's one of the most effective messages on the subject i've seen.

- – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – -

I get asked all the time, during workshops, in e-mails, in private
messages, what words of wisdom I would give to a new and aspiring
photographer. Here’s my answer.

- Style is a voice, not a prop or an action. If you can buy it,
borrow it, download it, or steal it, it is not a style. Don’t look
outward for your style; look inward.

- Know your stuff. Luck is a nice thing, but a terrifying thing to
rely on. It’s like money; you only have it when you don’t need it.

- Never apologize for your own sense of beauty. Nobody can tell you
what you should love. Do what you do brazenly and unapologetically. You
cannot build your sense of aesthetics on a concensus.

- Say no. Say it often. It may be difficult, but you owe it to
yourself and your clients. Turn down jobs that don’t fit you, say no to
overbooking yourself. You are no good to anyone when you’re stressed
and anxious.

- Learn to say “I’m a photographer” out loud with a straight face.
If you can’t say it and believe it, you can’t expect anyone else to,
either.

- You cannot specialize in everything.

- You don’t have to go into business just because people tell you
you should! And you don’t have to be full time and making an executive
income to be successful. If you decide you want to be in business, set
your limits before you begin.

- Know your style before you hang out your shingle. If you don’t,
your clients will dictate your style to you. That makes you nothing
more than a picture taker. Changing your style later will force you to
start all over again, and that’s tough.

- Accept critique, but don’t apply it blindly. Just because someone
said it does not make it so. Critiques are opinions, nothing more.
Consider the advice, consider the perspective of the advice giver,
consider your style and what you want to convey in your work. Implement
only what makes sense to implement. That doesn’t not make you
ungrateful, it makes you independent.

- Leave room for yourself to grow and evolve. It may seem like a
good idea to call your business “Precious Chubby Tootsies”….but what
happens when you decide you love to photograph seniors? Or boudoir?

- Remember that if your work looks like everyone else’s, there’s no
reason for a client to book you instead of someone else. Unless you’re
cheaper. And nobody wants to be known as “the cheaper photographer”.

- Gimmicks and merchandise will come and go, but honest photography is never outdated.

- It’s easier to focus on buying that next piece of equipment than
it is to accept that you should be able to create great work with what
you’ve got. Buying stuff is a convenient and expensive distraction. You
need a decent camera, a decent lens, and a light meter. Until you can
use those tools consistently and masterfully, don’t spend another dime.
Spend money on equipment ONLY when you’ve outgrown your current equipment and you’re being limited by it. There are no magic bullets.

- Learn that people photography is about people, not about
photography. Great portraits are a side effect of a strong human
connection.

- Never forget why you started taking pictures in the first place.
Excellent technique is a great tool, but a terrible end product. The
best thing your technique can do is not call attention to itself. Never
let your technique upstage your subject.

- Never compare your journey with someone else’s. It’s a marathon
with no finish line. Someone else may start out faster than you, may
seem to progress more quickly than you, but every runner has his own
pace. Your journey is your journey, not a competition. You will never
“arrive”. No one ever does.

- Embrace frustration. It pushes you to learn and grow, broadens
your horizons and lights a fire under you when your work has gone cold.
Nothing is more dangerous to an artist than complacence.

- Cheryl Jacobs

via Beyond Images

a giveaway!

Wreath
just a heads up that we'll be out of the office Dec 20 – Jan 2, busy spreading cheer and sipping hot cocoa.  here's wishing you visions of sugar plums!!

but before we head out, we'd like to have some BIG fun!  that's right!  leave a comment on *this* post and let us know of a friend/family member/co-worker/acquaintance of yours who could benefit from a complimentary 30 minute session and *why* (this is the important part). 

everyone is eligible (just one entry per person) – although if they live more than an hour from lexington, they'll need to be able to make a trip in.  the winner won't be selected randomly, we'll be handpicking a favorite.

comment before friday, december 12th @ 8am!  let the fun begin…start nominating!   photo via flickr

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